As the holiday season approaches, Lynn Forbes, mother of the late rapper AKA, has opened up about her journey through grief and the power of self-grace. The tragic death of her son, Kiernan “AKA” Forbes, who was shot and killed on February 10 outside a restaurant in Durban, continues to weigh heavily on her heart. While the investigation into his murder is ongoing, Lynn has used her platform to reflect on how grief has led her to a deeper understanding of forgiveness and compassion.
In an emotional and introspective post shared on social media, Lynn expressed how, amid her sorrow, she has come to realize the importance of offering grace—not just to others but to herself as well. “This Christmas, I want to share something deeply personal and meaningful; The gift of grace,” she wrote. She reflected on how grief has taught her that grace is not only a gift we give to others but one we must also extend to ourselves, especially during the hardest of times.
Lynn’s message also touched on the significance of forgiving others and letting go of pain, acknowledging that the struggles and behaviors of others are often more about their own internal battles than anything personal. “When we come to accept that the behavior of others has more to do with their internal struggles than us, we learn grace,” she said, inviting others to do the same in the face of life’s challenges.
Despite the pain she continues to carry, Lynn Forbes encouraged her followers to find joy in the small, everyday moments. “Even in grief or struggle, joy lives in life’s simple blessings; a smile, laughter, or the warmth of the sun,” she shared. Her message is a reminder to celebrate life’s light, even during the darkest of times, and to find comfort in the love and connection that remain.
