Multi-award-winning gospel singer and former Idols SA winner Khaya Mthethwa has opened up candidly about his love life—or the lack thereof. In a recent interview that’s sparked both laughter and empathy, Mthethwa admitted he has “given up on marriage”, saying the “marriage train left [him] a long time ago.”
Once a poster child for romance and family life, Khaya’s public journey—from a high-profile marriage to actress and TV personality Ntandoyenkosi Kunene, to a very public divorce—has been anything but smooth.
“I only attract rubbish now,” Mthethwa said, half-joking but clearly speaking from a place of deep reflection. “It’s like the good ones stopped showing up and sent clowns in their place.”
The musician’s statement resonated widely on social media, where many fans expressed both sympathy and amusement at his honesty. Some shared similar experiences, while others urged him not to give up on love just yet.
💬 A Deeper Conversation on Love, Healing & Self-Worth
Mthethwa’s comments touch on a broader issue many public figures face—finding genuine love in a world of filters, fame, and false intentions. His vulnerability has reopened conversations about emotional healing, especially for men, and the courage it takes to speak publicly about disappointment and personal growth.
Since his divorce in 2019, Khaya has remained largely private about his relationships, choosing instead to focus on his music, ministry, and mental health.
