South African influencer and Young, Famous & African star, Kefilwe Mabote, has made it clear that she’s no longer interested in the flashy lifestyle that once defined her. In a bold Instagram story, Mabote issued a stern warning to wealthy men sliding into her DMs, urging them to stop making advances and respecting her boundaries. The 32-year-old, who recently announced her spiritual journey and decision to distance herself from her past life, has no tolerance for unsolicited attention, especially from those assuming she is still the “same person” they once admired on TV.
“I am not your candidate! I humbly ask you to stop sending me ‘can I get to know you’ DMs. I’m not who you think I am,” Kefilwe wrote. In a fiery message, she threatened to expose those who continued to invade her private space with messages that she deemed disrespectful. “If you keep this up, I will expose you all,” she warned.
Mabote’s candid post isn’t just about rejecting attention—it’s about a deeper transformation. She revealed that, despite the allure of glamorous relationships, she’s been on a journey of self-discovery, spiritual awakening, and letting go of old demons. “Yes, I agree that being in a relationship is exciting, but you should see beyond the glitz and know the soul of the person you’re allowing into your life,” she added. “I’ve fought off the demons that have clung to me, those that have made my body their home. The spiritual warfare was real, and it was intense. This is no joke!”
Her stance has drawn praise from followers who have applauded her for taking control of her narrative and setting clear boundaries. Mabote’s decision to get rid of expensive designer clothes, along with her public embrace of her newfound faith, marks a striking departure from her previous image as a high-flying socialite.
As the comments flooded in, it became clear that Kefilwe’s message is resonating with many who see her actions as a powerful statement of self-empowerment. It seems she is no longer interested in living up to society’s expectations of wealth and glamour; instead, she is focusing on inner peace, spiritual growth, and the people who truly respect her journey.
Her transformation is not just about leaving the slay queen lifestyle behind but about reclaiming her space, identity, and autonomy. Whether she’s calling out unsolicited advances or sharing her spiritual awakening, Kefilwe Mabote is making it known that she’s in charge of her story—one that’s no longer defined by external validation.
