Sol Phenduka is facing criticism after revealing that he saves his friends’ partners’ phone numbers. The Podcast and Chill co-host and Kaya 959 radio presenter recently shared a screenshot of one of his contacts, saved humorously as “Nhlanhla ka Sfiso,” asking his followers if he’s the only one who does this.
The post quickly sparked a heated debate online, with many netizens questioning why Phenduka has his friends’ wives and girlfriends’ numbers in the first place. His seemingly innocent question turned into a social media frenzy, with some people warning him about crossing a line that could lead to problems in friendships.
The backlash came fast, with many advising Sol that maintaining relationships with both partners in a friendship could lead to unnecessary complications. The general consensus online was that such contact could blur boundaries and possibly create trust issues between friends.
While some defended Phenduka’s actions as harmless, others cautioned him about how it might appear to others, especially given the complex dynamics it could introduce. The incident serves as a reminder of the importance of setting clear boundaries in relationships, both romantic and platonic.
As the conversation continues online, Sol Phenduka has learned that sometimes, even the smallest things can spark major discussions about trust, respect, and personal boundaries.
