Philanthropist and businesswoman Rachel Kolisi recently sparked a wave of conversation on social media when she shared a series of heartfelt posts about breakups on her Instagram. Trending on Monday, 13 January, Kolisi’s candid reflections resonated deeply with many South Africans, particularly after her divorce from Springbok captain Siya Kolisi, which was publicly announced in October 2024.
In her Instagram thread, Kolisi touched on the emotional journey of relationships and self-worth, writing, “You deserve to be loved and chosen, not almost loved or almost chosen.” Her words seemed to strike a chord with many, especially after her high-profile separation. In another post, she offered a poignant analogy, “Let the kids believe in Santa. You believed in your ex 25 times,” a statement that many interpreted as a metaphor for the painful cycle of hope and disappointment she endured.
Kolisi’s posts came after her solo trip to Botswana to celebrate the New Year, a move that sparked interest as her estranged husband Siya Kolisi spent the holidays with their two children in Zimbabwe, surrounded by family. The contrast between their respective New Year celebrations only fueled speculation about the state of their relationship. While Siya’s family remained at the center of his holiday plans, Rachel’s posts reflected her focus on self-empowerment and healing.
Social media users, particularly on X (formerly Twitter), were quick to express their empathy and curiosity about Rachel’s openness. One user, @Athabzz, shared her Instagram stories, and many began to wonder if Rachel was preparing to share more about her marriage and what led to her breakup with Siya Kolisi. As she continues to be transparent about her feelings and experiences, Rachel Kolisi’s posts have left a lasting impact on her followers, who are waiting for her to share more of her story.
