Children of Murdered Mother Left to Grapple with Anger and Grief

by Thabiso Rakgaka

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In Bloemfontein, Free State, women’s organizations gathered to honor the late Sibongile Ngwana, whose tragic death highlighted the ongoing scourge of gender-based violence (GBV) and femicide in South Africa. Sibongile’s body, found decomposed after being dumped by her alleged killer, sparked outrage in the community. On November 26, 2023, various organizations, including Buwa Mosadi, Sefora Ntombela Foundation, and Cosatu, came together at South Park Cemetery to remember her life, accompanied by her grieving children, Nadia (10) and Bohlokwa (2).

Thokozile Nogabe, founder of Buwa Mosadi Women Organisation, presented the children with a food garden at their home in Phase 7, symbolizing support for the grieving family. The tribute was part of a broader campaign to raise awareness about the alarming rise in femicide, which continues to devastate families and communities. “We demand a GBVF-free society,” Nogabe emphasized, calling for stronger measures to combat gender-based violence and protect vulnerable women.

In a touching moment, Sibongile’s daughter, Nadia, planted a tree in memory of her mother. Her aunt, Noxolo Ngwana, expressed the profound pain the family endures, especially as they struggle to understand the brutality of Sibongile’s death. “Her kids will grow up with anger knowing how their mum was brutalized,” Noxolo shared. She also criticized the justice system for its slow response, noting that the family is still waiting for justice after Thabang Matekane, the suspect, was released due to insufficient evidence.

The heartbreaking event has brought attention to the increasing femicide rates in South Africa and the need for urgent reforms. Women’s rights groups continue to call for the government to enact harsher laws and penalties for perpetrators of gender-based violence, ensuring that justice is swift and that women are protected from further harm. As South Africa grapples with this crisis, the memory of Sibongile Ngwana serves as a painful reminder of the work that still needs to be done to safeguard the lives of women and children.

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