Rachel Kolisi has made a powerful statement on social media that seems to hint at her emotional state amid her high-profile separation from Springbok captain Siya Kolisi. The former couple, whose relationship was closely followed by the public, shocked fans when they announced their split just over a month ago. Since the announcement, Rachel has been seen making subtle yet noticeable changes, from sporting what some have dubbed a “revenge dress” to removing the word “wife” from her Instagram biography. These actions have led many to speculate about her feelings and where she stands in the wake of their divorce.
In a recent post on her Instagram Story, Rachel shared a poignant message that appears to reflect her current mindset. The mother of two, who also serves as the legal guardian to Siya’s younger siblings, posted a picture of all four of her children. Notably absent from the family portrait was Siya Kolisi himself, even though, according to his own social media posts, he was in Cape Town at the same time. The caption accompanying the photo was a Bible verse from Luke 12:34: “Where your treasure is, there your heart will also be.” This scripture is a reminder to focus on what truly matters and to put faith in God above life’s difficulties, which seems to align with Rachel’s message of finding strength and peace through her faith and her children during this challenging time.
The picture was taken over the weekend as the Kolisi family celebrated the birthday of Rachel’s youngest child, Kezia. Rachel’s words, “My heart is full,” accompanied by the joyful family moment, suggest that she is finding solace and happiness in spending quality time with her children. What stood out, however, was the absence of any reference to her estranged husband. It’s clear that, in this chapter of her life, Rachel is prioritizing her role as a mother and focusing on the wellbeing of her family, without addressing the breakdown of her marriage in her public posts.
While Rachel is processing the changes in her life, Siya Kolisi has also taken to social media to express his faith and reflect on his own journey. The Springbok captain posted his “verse of the day” from 1 Chronicles 16:34: “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good. His love endures forever.” This biblical quote, along with the visible Christian symbols he wore during the Wales game—where Siya had the word “Jesus” written on his wristband—suggests that he too is leaning on his faith to navigate this difficult period. Many have noted that Siya’s devotion to his beliefs is a constant source of comfort for him, particularly as he enters what could be his final season with the Springboks.
Amid the emotional tension, Rachel has been teasing her followers about an upcoming trip to Australia with the children, though it remains unclear whether Siya will be joining them. The family holiday comes at a time when both Rachel and Siya seem to be exploring new ways of living apart while continuing to co-parent their children. It is still uncertain whether the couple will be able to put their differences aside to spend the upcoming festive season together, as they did just months ago, when they enjoyed a brief family getaway at a safari park before their separation was made public.
As the divorce proceedings continue to unfold, both Rachel and Siya appear to be turning to their faith as a source of strength. The public nature of their split, combined with their high-profile roles in South African sports and media, has placed an immense amount of pressure on both individuals. However, their ability to maintain a sense of privacy and focus on their children during this time suggests that both are prioritizing what truly matters most—family and faith—as they navigate this new phase of their lives. Whether or not they will reconcile or continue to move forward separately remains to be seen, but their social media posts suggest that each is finding their own path through this difficult chapter.
